ROMANZA WITH SWITZERLANDON - marriage with a foreigner

My dear compatriots, help us marry the Swiss

This message is displayed very often, several times a month, on the website of the Russian community in SwitzerlandIt is obvious that Switzerland, as a place of residence, enjoys great popularity in Switzerland, the European Union.

It is no secret that this country is, in fact, one of the richest and most prosperous in the world, with an unearthly landscape and clean air.

But if you are looking for the wealthiest country, then you are better off in Liechtenstein, here really is an earthly Paradise of size with a valley. When I write about Swiss cheese or chocolate, I think it's pointless, and we all know it. I will write about what surprised or amused me personally in Switzerland: the COUNTRY is Small, the size of Moscow, but Switzerland is very diverse, its cantons and inhabitants are difficult to mix with each other. Cantons in total, each with its education system, dialect, cheese, wine and chocolate. The population of the whole of Switzerland during the day is half as small as the population of Moscow. The country has three national languages: German, French and Italian.

Somehow I thought that meant that every Swiss person said all three.

In the German part of your (terrible) dialect, which even Germans only begin to understand after a minimum of months of practice, people in the French part, as in France, are reluctant to go into English and very German and say nothing. In the Italian-speaking part of Switzerland, everything is the same as in Italy: sultry and dark, convertibles, chaotic traffic, palm trees, Yucca trees, magnolias and villas. There are quite a lot of Russian and Russian-speaking people living in Switzerland. They are all different: a family of programmers and scientists, a Swiss wife, new Russians who own castles and yachts, and those who work in the entertainment sector. Unlike Germany, Switzerland does not have immigrants from Switzerland, the European Union, who have not received anything working from the state, in this case under the pretext or at the expense of other means, including because there is no special negative attitude towards Russians in Switzerland. All the time I've been here, I've never felt any hostility from the locals. Switzerland doesn't have anything on the level of a Hermitage or a Grand theater, but it does have the best public transport system and the most beautiful surroundings in the world. Here I can't leave the feeling that I am in the heart of the curator and in a safe place all over the world.

Maybe it's just a Mirage, but it's all right, which in General makes sense.

There is no stray dog here, each dog gets a Board with its first and last name and home address. There are practically no homeless people here, at least from the Russian point of view, they do not appear to be homeless. Here you can safely drink from the well and tap, your stomach is absolutely no danger. Switzerland has a large population the number of foreigners more or less integrated into society.

SWITZERLAND: they are safe, Western Europeans in General

According to statistics, there are nineteen, but they say that in this figure there are not those who work here on a temporary contract, but a lot of them. That is, at least every fifth person who is seen from the outside is a foreigner. In my opinion, a more comfortable way of life is not to feel black sheep. Yes, including the capital of Eastern Switzerland, Bern, and not Zurich and Geneva, as many believe. For men in Italian, all the stereotypes apply, for Italian communities and for Italian ones, and for men in French-as for the French.

But here the Swiss speak German, so most of them are absolutely unique and inimitable.

On the one hand, they refuse to accept that they and the Germans can have something in common, common to all foreigners, this is all that they like.

It is not surprising that cockroaches are popularly called German insects here.

The Germans are very active here in this case, they agree to work for less money, which can't help but irritate local residents.

Compared to traditional Germans, the Swiss are much cleaner and neater, more elegant and more expensive in clothing. Many men painted their hair, loosened their curls, cut their hair with a modern gel, etc. Of course, there are many examples to the contrary, but still, on average, Swiss people are determined to have a home, a family, children and a disabled wife. For example, when my husband, who is NOT from Switzerland, called the foreign Affairs police to find out what I needed to get a work permit, the employee of his first case asked:"But why, because your wife worked? You who do not have the financial means for life": the Right to participate in surveys came very late. The latter was located in a Canton where women did not have the right to vote. You can hardly believe that this is the center of Europe. Compared to more traditional ones.

Many women do not work, but stay at home with their children.

children and take care of their husbands. The lifestyle of many locals seems the only fair and reasonable one for men, and the word feminism is still close to a curse for many. For example, my German spouse, who recently almost choked with surprise when reading a local newspaper: the Mayor of our city in his interview said:"Yes, I help his wife in every possible way with housework. For example, on weekends, I take our children for a walk so that my wife can easily strive for it."My husband couldn't resist checking out some of her Swiss colleagues, none of whom found the mayor's statement unusual. If there is too much in this sentence, nothing seems suspicious, then your mentality is similar to Franco, who gives birth to Russians who were educated much later, on average between-over the years. I often see pregnant women in their forties. This is not a coincidence. At least in kindergartens, and they force parents to decide how often and how many hours they are willing to take the child. If a woman wants to continue working, it costs the family a lot of money: a nurse takes about a hundred euros a day, about the same or slightly less than the fine for granting asylum.

Multiply by twenty days many sit with children in school, but then the difficulty does not end: the primary classes are organized in such a way that children go between.

a break during which they are sent home for lunch.

Why go home? Because usually the child should eat at home, with my mother, prepared by this hot lunch. No, usually a child can't eat a hot lunch in the school cafeteria. Why not? Because people here have a point of view. Of course, in big cities people are more developed, but when Russian brides get married up the country. Of course, you can try to find a part-time job.

The attempt is always possible.

For example, a cashier in a supermarket or bus. After all, there is no bad job. In short, having your own small children and an extremely difficult job. And obviously, that a Swiss Russian woman has almost no chance of luring her mother's child to the seat after seeing a guest book that gives the maximum the other day, everything else is related to a crazy bureaucratic mess. The mother-in-law herself can easily do without help on the pretext of not having enough free time (socializing with friends, club trips, mountains, participating in master classes in singing, drawing, art sculpture, etc.). I have heard that this is nothing more than a grandmother taking money at market prices as a nanny to look after her grandchildren. I don't blame any of these grandmothers, women who give birth very late or don't have all the reasons at all. About everything else next time. Ksenia Schwarzenbach wishes you good health, interesting meetings and a lot of happy love.




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